Long Term Solutions
The ideal is to build a lasting atmosphere of friendliness,
sportsmanship and co-operation.
All new Managers should attend an informal meeting where the Managers'
duties, responsibilities, the LLF Concept and how the league
operates can be explained.
A ‘New Parents’ Meeting’ is useful for explaining how your League
operates and to give parents the chance to ask questions. Some
leagues make a feature of these evenings, presenting their kit to
the players and using the opportunity to collect Individual
Memberships.
The Code of Conduct should be signed by all participants. See below.
League newsletters could include a request to all parents to shout
encouragement only from the touchlines.
Free
leaflets are available from the NEC and should be issued to all new
Managers and parents as they join. These include the “Team
Managers’ Guide” and the “Parents’ Guide”.
Local
rules should be documented and issued to all new Managers so they
can’t say they didn’t know the rules.
It should always be made clear that referees’ decisions are final and
will be backed by the Committee.
Short term solutions
The
League Chair should speak to any manager who is getting out of hand.
Managers and other Committee Members should ask any parent whose
behaviour is unreasonable to behave.
If
the problem is widespread, Leagues could consider issuing a letter
or newsletter to all parents.
What if a parent or manager does not respond?
If
your best efforts to encourage an adult to behave fall on deaf ears,
then it is unwise to just ignore the problem and hope it will go
away. You will need to write formally to the adult to give a final
warning. See example on next page.
Should the letter fail to improve matters, then you will need to bar
the adult (but not his or her child) from attending.
If this also fails, then you must, for the good of the league as a
whole, drop the child from the team.
Example letter
The
letter will need amending to suit the particular circumstances.
Dear
It has been brought to my attention that your behaviour at recent
matches is not what we expect of parents and clearly does not set an
example to your son/daughter, or indeed any children playing
football at..........(name League)....... You should know that Little
League Football is about enjoyment and fun rather than seeking to
'win at all costs'.
I
understand that you are regularly..........(specify offence).......
e.g.
- challenging the manager's team selection/choice of substitutes
- disputing refereeing decisions in an unacceptable manner
- using inappropriate language, particularly in the vicinity of
children
- shouting at players from the touchline in a manner likely to
distress them
I
therefore feel it necessary to ask you formally to refrain from this
practice and encourage your son/daughter and his/her team in a
fitting manner. If you do not choose to co-operate then regrettably
you will be asked not to attend matches. The ultimate sanction would
be for us to ask your child to leave too, a situation which I hope
you would not bring upon yourself.
Yours
sincerely
N O T Happy
Chair/Secretary